Review: My Shadow Is Pink
What are little boys made of? Is it really frogs and snails; everything that is not sugar and spice and all things nice that are otherwise attributed to the makeup of girls? Should blue be the only shade that maketh the man? Debut author illustrator, Scott Stuart blows these outdated tropes well and truly out of the water with this deliriously amusing and tender picture book, My Shadow is Pink.
Our intrepid main character’s little
face is a picture of consternation after he concedes that his shadow is not the
strong blue that trails the other males in his family. His is a delicate shade
of rose and mirrors that which he loves most: sparkles, dancing, twirling and
dressing up. Despite his father’s reassurances that his shadow will adopt a
more ‘manly’ appearance one of these days, and the little boy’s own
yearning to fit in with the other acceptable shadow groups, he is unable to
dismiss his conflicting feelings. Then one day an invitation to let his shadow dress up in its favourite thing changes
everything.
My
Shadow Is Pink is a
lyrical ode to removing stigmas and crushing barriers about gender
expectations. It is brazen and brave, bold and bright and above all challenges
pre-conceived perceptions in beautiful shades of pink … and blue. Stuart
colours his pages of rhyming text with eye-riveting swaths of vivid yellows,
blues and pinks that favour his cartoon-esque style.
Inspired by Stuart’s own son whose
singular adoration for Queen Elsa sparked a need to support his son’s choice of
clothing and playthings, this story assures youngsters that we all have hidden
shadows; those unique wants, passions, and desires that ultimately colour our
individuality and enrich our personalities. These shadows don’t and won’t
always conform to some people’s assumptions of what is ‘normal’ and what isn’t.
But expectations of perfection and normality are just some people’s little
opinions. In the big picture, they count for nothing because we are who we are. No one should have to
apologise for that nor change because of it.
The most touching thing about this
story aside from its powerful message about the importance of building self-esteem
in the very young and allowing full expression of self, is the deliciously
strong portrayal of the little boy’s father. He is your stereotypical male
figure, moustachioed with uncompromising chest hairs; a character that reminded
me a little of heavily browed Tim Lockwood, Flint’s dad from Cloudy With a Chance of Meatballs. Yet
Dad’s bulging biceps and concern about his son are not his biggest attributes.
It’s his heart. It is his profound fatherly love that eventually sheds (his
shadow’s) flannel shirt for a pink sparkling shimmering dress.
My
Shadow Is Pink, along with Stuart’s unyielding promotion of
self-acceptance and empowerment, is not just a fun book to share with children
of any gender and age (this would be dynamic to share with older readers and
damaged teens), it is also an important conduit for empathy, encouraging
readers to walk a mile not just in another’s shoes but with their beautiful
incomparable shadows. And if that involves an Elsa dress, then walk in that
too.
Bursting with mirth and tenderness,
this book deserves a place on the top shelf. Read it often.
Title: My
Shadow Is Pink
Author Illustrator: Scott Stuart
Publisher: Larrikin House, $24.99
Publication Date: August 2020
Format: Hardcover
ISBN: 9780648728757
For ages: 4+
Type: Picture Book
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